How many folks here identify as an introvert (versus an extrovert?)
I know I do. And by the way, this isn't the same as being shy or not wanting to be social. It's more about where you get your energy from - from alone time and time in smaller groups, or from being in larger groups.
If you're not sure if you're an introvert or not, here's an article I discovered yesterday that pretty much describes my experience with being an introvert spot on: https://medium.com/p/8ee71d83b28a
We decided to address this topic during our monthly live video chat earlier this week - as many folks ask how we keep such an active social life on the road while being introverted. The archive of that video chat is available on Youtube.
if you're curious if RVing is a good lifestyle for introverts, or just looking for some tips & tricks on how to balance being an introvert and still having a social life on the road - you might find this hour long video worthwhile (only the first 25 minutes is our presentation, the rest was our open Q&A).
Hope it's helpful, and maybe even opens up some conversations,
- Cherie
-- Edited by Technomadia on Friday 21st of February 2014 10:53:52 AM
-- Edited by Technomadia on Friday 21st of February 2014 10:54:53 AM
jrzygrl64 said
10:24 AM Feb 21, 2014
I am a total extrovert but my husband is an introvert. He loves his alone quiet time, and prefers smaller, more intimate groups. I, completely opposite, love crowds and being with people.
What do they say - opposites attract? Certainly is true in our case!
GENECOP said
03:44 PM Feb 21, 2014
Interesting, Thankyou.....
Jim and Barb said
08:08 PM Feb 21, 2014
We missed the live presentation on the 19th but watched 1/2 of it last night on YouTube up to the Q&A. Watching the rest tonight. We can relate totally to what you are saying and loved you presentation. Thank you for putting it on!
MarkS said
08:52 PM Feb 21, 2014
How I am verted depends on my mood. I enjoy meeting people and socializing but there are times when alone is where it's at. I think vert has lost favor. They even took it off the controls on the TV.
WestWardHo said
10:34 PM Feb 21, 2014
Very, very interesting! Thanks Cherie.
Sherry
RVKevi said
09:27 PM Feb 22, 2014
I am definitely an introvert. Interestingly, Kev is also an introvert. There is good and bad to that, as we don't connect with other people as much as we'd like. If one of us were an extrovert, we'd probably do better in that area. I really liked the article as it is an excellent description of us. I started to watch the YouTube, but don't have time right now to finish it, but I bookmarked it. It looks good.
-- Edited by RVKevi on Saturday 22nd of February 2014 09:28:06 PM
earthmommy said
01:09 AM Feb 23, 2014
Interesting question. I was just talking with a friend a few days ago about my hope to solo RV in the future, and his first question for me was in regard to my being an introvert. I'm think I'm both, depending on the day really. Sometimes I want to spend time with friends and I always enjoy meeting new people. Then on the other hand, there are times where I crave solitude and I am perfectly content to spend time on my own. I feel like the RV lifestyle will offer me the chance to indulge both sides of my personality.
Talensnana said
12:01 AM Feb 24, 2014
I use to be much more extroverted before my alphabet soup of illnesses started affecting me. My husband is somewhere in between the two. In our travels we have met some really nice people, but have not really socialized with any fellow RVers. We are looking forward to forming friendships and attending our first rally with you all, but at the same time a little nervous about it. I Will have to check out the video.
MerryPaws said
08:31 AM Feb 26, 2014
I have not had a chance to watch your video yet, but thank you for posting this. It is one of my fears in going solo. I am definitely an introvert. I have no problems being on my own, but I get bored doing things by myself. I like to mountain bike, rock climb, hike, and kayak and if I don't have someone to go with I simply will not go. Not only is it safer, but I prefer sharing it with someone. That being said, I am not one to approach people and talk to them. I just don't have it in me. I don't mind if people do so with me, I am friendly and I will converse if asked questions, but alas my shyness and introversion works against my desire for company on adventures. Yes its an ironic vicious cycle. I will definitely be watching that video soon! Thanks.
The Bear II said
10:17 AM Feb 26, 2014
My DW is an extreme extrovert... she's like honey to bees. Folks are drawn to her.
I, on the other hand, usually act like an introvert but can be an extrovert when I want to. I think it comes from the type of work I chose as my profession. I was in marketing and sales so I had to be "on" 8 hours a day 5 days a week. When not at work my choice was to have as little human contact as possible. I was tired of being "on" and needed some down time.
So when camping, my DW would establish quick friendships and then I would join in eventually.
I have to say we have gained many good and long standing friends over the years from meeting folks while camping. But I have to say this may not have happened without my DW doing her extrovert thing....
Lynn and Ed said
01:38 PM Feb 26, 2014
Cherie, great thought provoking posting/video!
Camper Chronicles said
08:26 AM Feb 28, 2014
The Bear II wrote:
. I think it comes from the type of work I chose as my profession. I was in marketing and sales so I had to be "on" 8 hours a day 5 days a week. When not at work my choice was to have as little human contact as possible. I was tired of being "on" and needed some down time.
I totally get that. I am hoping that by dialing it down with my job I will have more energy in my personal life to be extroverted
folivier said
08:38 AM Mar 1, 2014
Great video Chris & Cherie!
I've always been an introvert and have trouble initiating conversation. Cindy not as much.
When reading some other forums there are always people who prejudge others because of what rv they have. Usually saying that people with certain high end brands are snobby. Not always the case, sometimes we don't want to be social and like you said "need our quiet time". I'm usually pretty good with a small group of another couple or two. But have a hard time interacting with "pushy" or "controlling" people.
I've just begun to understand that being an introvert is normal. Prior to last year I had never heard of Myers Briggs and thought I was unsocial and snobby and unfriendly. But now know that these are labels put on introverts by extroverts.
Thanks again for helping me and others to understand that we are normal.
How many folks here identify as an introvert (versus an extrovert?)
I know I do. And by the way, this isn't the same as being shy or not wanting to be social. It's more about where you get your energy from - from alone time and time in smaller groups, or from being in larger groups.
If you're not sure if you're an introvert or not, here's an article I discovered yesterday that pretty much describes my experience with being an introvert spot on: https://medium.com/p/8ee71d83b28a
We decided to address this topic during our monthly live video chat earlier this week - as many folks ask how we keep such an active social life on the road while being introverted. The archive of that video chat is available on Youtube.
if you're curious if RVing is a good lifestyle for introverts, or just looking for some tips & tricks on how to balance being an introvert and still having a social life on the road - you might find this hour long video worthwhile (only the first 25 minutes is our presentation, the rest was our open Q&A).
Hope it's helpful, and maybe even opens up some conversations,
- Cherie
-- Edited by Technomadia on Friday 21st of February 2014 10:53:52 AM
-- Edited by Technomadia on Friday 21st of February 2014 10:54:53 AM
What do they say - opposites attract? Certainly is true in our case!
Sherry
I am definitely an introvert. Interestingly, Kev is also an introvert. There is good and bad to that, as we don't connect with other people as much as we'd like. If one of us were an extrovert, we'd probably do better in that area. I really liked the article as it is an excellent description of us. I started to watch the YouTube, but don't have time right now to finish it, but I bookmarked it. It looks good.
-- Edited by RVKevi on Saturday 22nd of February 2014 09:28:06 PM
I use to be much more extroverted before my alphabet soup of illnesses started affecting me. My husband is somewhere in between the two. In our travels we have met some really nice people, but have not really socialized with any fellow RVers. We are looking forward to forming friendships and attending our first rally with you all, but at the same time a little nervous about it. I Will have to check out the video.
I have not had a chance to watch your video yet, but thank you for posting this. It is one of my fears in going solo. I am definitely an introvert. I have no problems being on my own, but I get bored doing things by myself.
I like to mountain bike, rock climb, hike, and kayak and if I don't have someone to go with I simply will not go. Not only is it safer, but I prefer sharing it with someone. That being said, I am not one to approach people and talk to them. I just don't have it in me. I don't mind if people do so with me, I am friendly and I will converse if asked questions, but alas my shyness and introversion works against my desire for company on adventures. Yes its an ironic vicious cycle. 
I will definitely be watching that video soon! Thanks.
I, on the other hand, usually act like an introvert but can be an extrovert when I want to. I think it comes from the type of work I chose as my profession. I was in marketing and sales so I had to be "on" 8 hours a day 5 days a week. When not at work my choice was to have as little human contact as possible. I was tired of being "on" and needed some down time.
So when camping, my DW would establish quick friendships and then I would join in eventually.
I have to say we have gained many good and long standing friends over the years from meeting folks while camping. But I have to say this may not have happened without my DW doing her extrovert thing....
Cherie, great thought provoking posting/video!
I totally get that. I am hoping that by dialing it down with my job I will have more energy in my personal life to be extroverted
I've always been an introvert and have trouble initiating conversation. Cindy not as much.
When reading some other forums there are always people who prejudge others because of what rv they have. Usually saying that people with certain high end brands are snobby. Not always the case, sometimes we don't want to be social and like you said "need our quiet time". I'm usually pretty good with a small group of another couple or two. But have a hard time interacting with "pushy" or "controlling" people.
I've just begun to understand that being an introvert is normal. Prior to last year I had never heard of Myers Briggs and thought I was unsocial and snobby and unfriendly. But now know that these are labels put on introverts by extroverts.
Thanks again for helping me and others to understand that we are normal.